A recently married couple (not one of ours) was the butt of a lot of jokes on the morning radio shows yesterday:
According to a criminal complaint, the Wielechowskis had just checked into the Holiday Inn-McKnight Road in Ross and were ready to enter their room on the seventh floor when they began arguing.
Dr. Wielechowski "then used a karate-style kick with his leg to kick Christa, knocking her to the floor," the complaint reads.
Upon hearing her screams, two guests of the hotel who had been attending another wedding reception ran to Mrs. Wielechowski's aid. But when they attempted to restrain Dr. Wielechowski, he began fighting the would-be rescuers only to have Mrs. Wielechowski "turn against [them] and also begin to assault them," according to the complaint.
(full story at http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/08119/877164-52.stm)
And also in newspaper articles
Marriage consultants and relationship therapists will speculate about the Wielechowskis' marriage. Is reconciliation possible, or do they bite the bullet and put boxing promoter Don King on retainer?
(article at http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/08120/877372-153.stm)
But seriously, domestic violence is no laughing matter, and we hope that if you're in a relationship, you seek out help to end the cycle. Too many people convince themselves their partner will change once they're married, or after the child arrives, but usually things only grow worse and worse. There are people who will help and protect you if you're in a violent situation. It will take an incredible amount of bravery to get out of the relationship, but in the long run, it's the best thing you can do.
We're not sure if this couple was overcome by the stress of the day, or if this is more of the same in their relationship (and apparently they have been under a considerable amount lately, see http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/08120/877410-85.stm), but we wish them all the best.